Drawing from one of Scripture’s most tender moments—Jesus pausing in His final hours to ensure His mother's care (John 19:27)—Dr. Stanley offers practical, biblical ways to love the mother figures in your life. With warmth and candor, he weaves in personal memories of his own mother to remind us that this relationship is one of God's most sacred gifts, worthy of honoring not just on Mother's Day, but every day.
Sermon Outline
What does it really mean to honor our mothers? True honor goes beyond obligation—it flows from gratitude for those who shaped us. This week, Dr. Stanley shares 10 practical ways to honor the women who influenced our life.
Key Passage: John 19:25-27
Supporting Passage: Ephesians 6:1
Love for our mothers can be expressed in many ways. Does yours know how much she means to you?
►“We thank God for mothers if they’re in heaven. And we thank God for them if they’re here.”
Jesus is the best example of what honoring a mother looks like:
Even while dying on the cross, He was concerned about His mother (John 19:25-27).
His words to her were courteous and deeply respectful (v. 26).
He may have wanted her to see Him as the Messiah, not her son (to ease her pain).
►“Mothers need to hear their children say, ‘Mom, I love you.’ Not once, but often.”
Ten ways to love your mother:
Verbally (if possible)—Tell her you love her and why she means so much to you.
Physically—Embrace her, if your relationship allows for that. Physical affection matters—don’t underestimate the power of a hug or a gentle touch.
Patiently—You should always extend grace to your mother. She may see things differently than you or make choices you don’t agree with. Respond with kindness rather than criticism.
Gratefully—Look for something you can genuinely thank her for, even if it’s a small thing. Gratitude honors her and benefits your own heart.
►“The thing that most honors a mother? Having a godly son or daughter.”
Generously—Pay attention to her needs, whether financial, practical, or relational. Freely share what you have, and make sure she knows she can count on you.
Tenderly—Be a good listener. Pay attention to both what she says and how she says it. Sometimes she just needs to be heard.
Forgivingly—If there’s hurt between you, forgiveness is essential. It doesn’t erase what happened, but it does free you from bitterness. It’s helpful to work toward releasing the anger that weighs you down.
Devotedly—Defend, protect, and support her. Show up for her consistently and let her know she matters to you.
Cheerfully—Look for ways to bring her joy. Share a laugh, recall a happy memory, or simply brighten her day with your presence.
Honorably—Live an honorable, moral life before God. While we ultimately live to please Him, our character also reflects on those who raised us.
After Watching
Look at Dr. Stanley’s list of 10 ways to love Mom, and choose one—maybe expressing gratitude for something, working toward forgiveness, or sharing a kind word. If direct contact with your mother is not possible, consider how you might honor her. In addition, consider thanking another woman who has helped to shape you.
This week, lift up mothers in prayer—whether your own, the women who’ve mothered you, or mothers you know who are struggling. Ask God to sustain them, encourage them, and meet their deepest needs.
